What Attracts a Man to a Woman

The astrology of attraction

Astrology can give us clues about the kind of people men and women are attracted to. Then, we can determine the ideal woman for a man.

The position of Venus in a man’s chart by the sign

We at Café Astrology always shy away from the ancient rules of attraction.  In ancient times, astrologers used to interpret the position and condition of Venus in the natal chart distinctively depending on the gender of the native. Venus is in men’s and women’s charts differently because men usually disown Venus’ qualities in their chart.

Because the energies of Venus have to go somewhere, if men disown them, the energies will project into the women he interacts with.  Women relate well with Venus’s qualities.

Nevertheless, the position of Venus by sign in a man’s chart gives some clues as to what he will find attractive in a woman. This is because Venus always reveals what we find pleasing and love and what turns us on to some extent.  You can check out these tables if you are unaware of Venus’ sign position. Birthdate is all you need.

• If a man’s Venus is in Aries, he is frequently attracted to tomboys. These men don’t get attracted to ultra-sensitive or shy women since they only prefer independent and firm types.
• If a man’s Venus is in the Taurus, he is frequently attracted to women with hourglass figures portraying calmness and femininity. They prefer ladies who are traditionally feminine rather than aggressive ones. These men get attracted to sensual but simple auras.
• If a man’s Venus is in the Gemini, they prefer a more knowledgeable lady rather than looks. They, at times, like an athletic or tomboyish look.
• If a man’s Venus is in Cancer, he is likely to prefer sweet, soft, and warm women.  He frequently gets attracted to feminine looks and women who dress. They often dislike feeling rejected, so they go for the not-so-aggressive women.
• If a man’s Venus is in Leo, he gets attracted to proud and outgoing women. They tend to enjoy women who love wearing good makeup and jewelry.
• If a man’s Venus is in Virgo, he gets attracted to simple women without too much glamour. He loves natural, healthy, and clean women. They have to be intelligent too.
• If a man’s Venus is in Libra, he gets appealed by well-mannered, simple, and beautiful women. Rudeness is frequently a turn-off.
• If a man’s Venus is in Scorpio, he gets attracted to women who ooze sensuality and are dark and mysterious.
• If a man’s Venus is in Sagittarius, he gets appealed by an energetic and happy aura woman. Generally, women who are not well-groomed, slim, and clean are the ones they prefer.
• If a man’s Venus is in Capricorn, he prefers women who are career-oriented and have classic looks. They mostly prefer older women.
• If a man’s Venus is in Aquarius, he gets attracted to fun and interesting women. The women can be beautiful but boring? No.
• If a man’s Venus is in Pisces, he frequently gets impressed with soft, sweet, and needy women. She doesn’t like aggressive ones; he prefers women who lack confidence and are a bit helpless.